STRESS AND DEPRESSION OF THE YOUNG PEOPLE

There are many problems that teenagers go threw. Stress and depression are serious problems for many teenagers, as the 1986 study of minnesota high school students, US reveals. About 39 percent of the teenagers suffer from mild to severe depression. These young people often rely passive or negative behaviour in their attempts to deal with problems.

Young people become stress for many reasons. The most common of these are: they have just broken up with his girl friend or her boy friend, Increased arguments with their parents, trouble with their brother or sister, increased arguments between their parents, change in parents financial status, serious illness or injury of family member, trouble with classmates or they get trouble with their parents.

These events are centered in the two most important domains of teenager's life, There are home and school. They relate to issues of conflict and loss. Loss can reflect the real or perceived loss of something concrete such as a friend or money, and it can mean the loss of abstract things as self-worth, respect, friendship or love. The young people who often become frustration, worry, sadness, hopelessness, isolation, withdrawal and worthlessness will not solve their problem properly, but they will try to be negative of everything instead. Several studies of the youth find the young people who reported making suicide attempts were depressed. Not only in suicide case, almost of them also overcome their problem with a new problem such as drugs, alcohol, smoking, free sex, and other dangerous and criminal act that may become a serious problem for themselves later.

The best way to solve this problem is the teenagers have to respond to stressful events in their lives by doing something relaxing, trying positive and self-reliant problem solving, or seeking friendship and support from others. Common examples include listening to music, trying to make their own decisions, daydreaming, trying to figure out solutions, keeping up friendships, watching television and being close to people who they care about. These behaviours are appropriate for adolescents who are trying to become independent, take responsibility for themselves, and draw on friends and family for support.ves by doing something relaxing, trying positive and self-reliant problem solving, or seeking friendship and support from others. Common examples include listening to music, trying to make their own decisions, daydreaming, trying to figure out solutions, keeping up friendships, watching television and being close to people who they care about.